The man of my dreams loves fruits and vegetables as much as he loves pizza or steak. He doesn't have to be athletic, or even overly fit but he is active and consistently makes healthy choices. He knows how to do traditionally "manly" things: build a shelter, a fire, fix a car and a computer but does not fall prey to machismo silliness.He is strong in mind and body and takes pride in a job well done. He enjoys hard work, always finishes a task he's set out to complete, appreciates personal growth and is open-minded and optimistic more times than not. He is resourceful and driven, but not aggressive, and doesn't take competition too seriously. He is independent but sensitive to the needs of others, craves new experiences and has an adventurous spirit so is always willing to try something new, enthusiastically. He is brave despite his fears and willing to take calculated risks. He asks for directions when he's lost, is devoted to his wife and family before all else. He is chivelrous out of respect, not obligation, and appreciates a strong and independent woman. He is loyal and impeccable with his word and takes integrity very seriously.
He takes pride in his hygiene and appearance without being metrosexual or vain. He is confident but humble (and understands how someone can be both). He is socially and environmentally conscious and genuinely cares for the whole of humanity. Whatever he does for a living, he does it because it is his passion, and would not think of selling-out for cash, but he understands the responsibility of caring for a family and so does his very best to help contribute financially. He has broad interests and enjoys learning about other cultures and other people, is patient and tolerant (especially with children) and both enjoys and appreciates kids. He is tolerant of others, and respectful even when he disagrees with someone's perspective. He is well-educated and eager to learn through both experience and academia. He likes to read, is at least somewhat creative and imaginative and is genuinely compassionate.
And while he knows that raising the future generation is serious business, he doesn't take things too seriously or too personally. He embraces change, even if it scares him.
He appreciates all things in nature and can see the patterns and teachings inherent in the cycle of the seasons and in a simple, earth-conscious life. He is deeply spiritual but probably not religious, and he wants a woman who is very similar to himself in almost all regards.
I have been told that this man does not exist, that they are mythical, gay, or live in Montana..haha! I've been told that I am an idealist, a perfectionist and that my standards are far to high. But, as with dragons and faeries, angels and demons, ghosts and aliens, I remain ever-watchful for proof of their existence.
